yt:channel:k2U-Oqn7RXf-ydPqfSxG5gk2U-Oqn7RXf-ydPqfSxG5gMel RobbinsMel Robbinshttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCk2U-Oqn7RXf-ydPqfSxG5g2015-02-11T22:17:42+00:00yt:video:dz23H7Cgylwdz23H7CgylwUCk2U-Oqn7RXf-ydPqfSxG5gHow to Master Any Conversation, Communicate With Confidence, and Deal With Difficult PeopleMel Robbinshttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCk2U-Oqn7RXf-ydPqfSxG5g2026-07-06T09:00:24+00:002026-07-06T09:05:46+00:00How to Master Any Conversation, Communicate With Confidence, and Deal With Difficult PeopleWhat if you could walk into any room and become the person everyone remembers?
Someone who can communicate with confidence, command respect, and create lasting connections?
Today, Mel sits down with Oz Pearlman, a world-renowned mentalist who has spent decades mastering the skills that make people more trustworthy, respected, and likeable.
On stage, Oz creates the illusion of reading minds. But in this energizing conversation, he reveals some of the tools behind his success that you can use in your own life to read people, talk to anyone, and communicate with confidence.
You’ll learn how to pay attention to what 99% of people miss, build instant trust, and become unforgettable in the process.
Whether you want to speak up at work, make a stronger first impression on a date, or go after what you want in life, this conversation will show you how to become bold, magnetic, and memorable.
Oz will teach you:
-The questions that kill any conversation and what to ask instead
-The #1 way to become the most interesting person in any room
-How to stop waiting for opportunities and create your own
-The “fast-forward” trick that helps you get over dread and finally do what you’ve been avoiding
-How to never forget a name or other important details about people again
-How to tell when someone isn’t telling you the truth
This episode is your guide to becoming more confident, reading people, building instant connections, and becoming more likeable.
In this episode:
00:00 Introduction
11:14 How to Make a Great First Impression Instantly
15:17 How to Meet New People and Start Better Conversations
27:56 How to Handle Rejection and Do Things You Dread
33:52 How to Beat Procrastination and Take Action Fast
36:03 Why the First 10 Seconds of Meeting Someone Matter Most
44:01 How to Remember Names and Never Forget Someone Again
52:04 How to Tell If Someone Is Lying: Body Language and Hidden Cues
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If you’re doing great work but not getting recognized, listen to this.
Carla Harris is one of the most respected leaders on Wall Street, with 35 years in the rooms where promotions, compensation, and opportunities are decided.
Carla explains that you’re often not in the room where the big decisions about your career are happening.
That’s why working hard isn’t always enough. You need someone willing to speak up and advocate for you in the rooms that you aren’t in.
And if you don’t know who that person is, that’s the missing piece you need if you want to succeed.
Stop just focusing on performance. Start building the relationships that actually move your career forward.
On this episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast, Carla Harris breaks down how to stop playing small, stop waiting to be noticed, and position yourself to win, even in the rooms you’re not in.
Watch the full episode now: https://youtu.be/NQtBfbQt_bM?si=2u6wVHOAU7kwciBm
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There’s a kind of grief you’ve been carrying - that many women have been struggling with - that didn’t have a name until now.
Kelly McDaniel is a renowned psychotherapist and bestselling author whose work helped millions understand something she calls Mother Hunger - a deep, unmet need for nurturance, safety, and guidance early in life.
Kelly shares how she discovered Mother Hunger while working with women in recovery from love addiction. She noticed a pattern during withdrawal — when you’re trying to detach from a relationship you feel like you can’t live without — and the same words surfaced again and again: “I want my mom.”
Not necessarily that specific mother, but the need to be mothered. The need for comfort, safety, and soothing when your nervous system feels like it’s in survival mode.
Kelly McDaniel explains that this isn’t about blaming your mother. It’s about telling the truth:
Whatever you had to become as a child to feel loved often becomes who you are.
People‑pleasing, overgiving, hyper‑awareness of others’ emotions — these patterns can come from a need to secure connection when you were young.
On this episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast, Kelly breaks down what Mother Hunger is, how it shapes your identity, and how to start healing by giving yourself what you didn’t receive.
Watch the full episode: https://youtu.be/Li5PCbqEaEw?si=ZI-8f2OYglwHPnD9
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Are you sure you’re giving this part of your life a real chance?
Because it’s hard to feel happy when you’re only halfway in.
When part of you is still comparing, still holding onto something else, still looking for a way out, it changes the way you show up in your life.
You start judging, pulling back, keeping one foot somewhere else instead of being fully here.
And the truth is, it’s unfair to blame a situation for how you feel if you haven’t actually given it your full energy.
On this deeply personal episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast I sit down with my 21-year-old son Oakley. Together, we talk about how to know if it’s you or the situation, what it actually means to be all in, and how to stop holding back so you can start building something that feels right.
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You cannot build a better life while staring at your old life.
Here’s something to consider if you’ve been feeling stuck or unhappy lately.
The more you compare your life now to what it used to be, the harder it is to enjoy what’s here.
A past relationship, a past version of your life, a time that felt easier or better.
But that comparison turns into judgment about what’s worse, what doesn’t measure up.
And when you keep doing that, you miss what’s actually good in front of you.
You end up holding onto the past while trying to build something new at the same time and that’s what keeps you stuck.
On this deeply personal episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast I sit down with my 21-year-old son Oakley. We talk about comparing your current chapter to the past, how to figure out what’s actually keeping you unhappy, and how to redirect your energy so you can start creating a version of your life that feels better.
Watch the full episode now: https://youtu.be/bNEgsvoPQjQ?si=77js21rHzxsy25r6
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If there’s an area of your life that you’re feeling unhappy about and want to take control over, today’s episode will show you exactly what to do.
Joining Mel in this deeply personal episode is her 21-year-old son Oakley. He candidly shares how he went from feeling stuck and lonely, to finally feeling happy again, and the simple mindset shifts and changes that made the biggest difference.
He and Mel openly unpack how to go from feeling unhappy about a situation you feel like you don’t have a lot of control over, and how to move through it.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
-How the fantasy version of your past keeps you from seeing what’s possible now
-How to know whether it’s you or the situation that needs to change
-Why it’s unfair to criticize where you are if you haven’t done this one thing
-How long you should give a new situation before deciding if it’s the right fit
-The 4 things you may be doing to keep you stuck and unhappy
-The signs that you’re “quietly quitting” the situation you’re in
-The science of luck and what happy people do to make their own luck
-The first thing you need to do when you’re unhappy and want your life to feel different
Here’s the hard truth: nobody is coming to rescue you - and that’s good news.
It means you have more power than you think.
The moment you see what’s keeping you stuck, you can start changing it. After today, you’ll know exactly what needs to change first.
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In this episode:
00:00 Meet the Guest
04:20 The 4 Reasons Life Changes So Hard
09:23 How to Find Happiness Right Where You Are
23:21 The Power of Saying Yes
32:15 How to Create Your Own Luck
37:03 What Stops You From Being Happy
46:20 If You Change Nothing, Nothing Changes
56:05 The Reason You Need to Keep Going
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The two things holding you back in your career aren’t what you think.
Carla Harris is one of the most respected leaders on Wall Street, with 35 years of experience in the rooms where decisions like who gets promoted, who gets picked, and why.
Carla explains that for most women, it comes down to two things:
Fear and fatigue.
Early on in your career, it’s fear. Not feeling ready. Not trusting your voice. Holding back your full power.
Later, it’s fatigue. You’ve worked for years. You’ve fought your way up. And you’re tired.
But here’s what most people don’t realize:
What it takes to get to the next level is just a fraction of what you’ve already done.
You don’t need to start over.
You don’t need to prove everything again.
You just need to take the next step.
If you’re being overlooked for a promotion or raise, you’re changing jobs or looking for a job, or you’ve been feeling uneasy or uncertain at work, this episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast is for you.
Carla breaks down what’s really holding you back, and how to stop playing small so you can move forward with clarity, confidence, and strategy.
Watch the full episode now: https://youtu.be/NQtBfbQt_bM?si=9-8II-KyYmfaB_VI
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When you dream about someone you’ve lost, it’s not random…
Dr. Rahul Jandial is a world-renowned neuroscientist and neurosurgeon who teaches you how your brain uses dreams to process grief.
If you wake up from those dreams and wonder what it meant, or why it felt so real. It’s because tour brain isn’t just replaying memories, it’s working through the loss you’ve experienced.
When you’re awake, you might push the feeling down, stay busy, avoid going there.
But when you’re asleep, that part of your mind opens up. The emotion, the attachment, the relationship, it all comes forward in a way your waking mind doesn’t allow.
On this episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast with Dr. Rahul Jandial, you’ll learn what your dreams are really telling you, how to understand the emotional patterns behind them, and how to use them to better understand yourself.
Watch the full episode now: https://youtu.be/GIGmGupeD_I?si=zC2GW2BVEwzCvS6G
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If you want to remember your dreams, don’t do this when you wake up.
Dr. Rahul Jandial is a world-renowned neuroscientist and neurosurgeon who teaches you how to train your brain to remember and even control your dreams.
You wake up, grab your phone, move around, and your dream disappears almost instantly.
That first moment matters more than you think.
When you wake up, stay still, don’t reach for anything, give your brain a few minutes to hold onto the images and emotions while they’re still there.
When you protect that moment, you don’t just remember more. You start to access ideas, insights, and perspectives you wouldn’t have otherwise.
On this episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast with Dr. Rahul Jandial, you’ll learn how to remember your dreams, how to influence what you dream about, and how to use that early morning window to think differently and solve problems.
Watch the full episode now: https://youtu.be/GIGmGupeD_I?si=zC2GW2BVEwzCvS6G
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Do you ever wake up from a dream and wonder: What did that mean?
Or maybe you’ve had a nightmare and asked yourself: Why did I dream that? Could I stop it? Is my brain trying to tell me something?
Maybe you keep having the same dream over and over again.
Or maybe you’re the person who says, “I don’t dream.”
According to today’s expert, you’re wrong. We all dream.
And once you understand what your brain is doing while you’re dreaming, you’ll never think about sleep, your mind, or what’s possible in the same way again.
Today, for the very first time on the show, Mel is diving deep into the science of dreaming, nightmares, what your dreams mean, what they’re trying to tell you, and more importantly, how to harness your dreams to unlock the full power of your mind.
You’re meeting Dr. Rahul Jandial, MD, PhD - one of the most highly regarded, cited, and distinguished doctors in the world. He is a world-renowned pioneering neurosurgeon, cancer surgeon, and neuroscientist, who is here to teach you what your brain is doing when you dream.
You’ll also learn how to tap into the power of your dreams to create deeper connections, solve problems, unlock more creativity, and better understand yourself.
In this episode, Dr. Jandial will show you that dreaming is not random. It is not meaningless. And it is not something to ignore.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
- What your dreams are really trying to tell you
- How to know which dreams are worth paying attention to
- What recurring dreams and nightmares may reveal about your emotional life
- Why nightmares can be an early warning sign that something deeper needs your attention
- How dreams can help you solve problems, process stress, and unlock creativity
- The simple way to train yourself to remember your dreams
- How to use the first 10 minutes after waking up to access fresh ideas and insight
- What lucid dreaming is and the exact steps to try it
This conversation will change how you think about your life - both the one you’re living while you’re awake and the one you’re living while you’re dreaming.
And once you hear it, you will never look at what’s possible the same way again.
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In this episode:
0:00 Introduction
6:40 Why You Forget Your Dreams After Waking Up
8:59 Why We Dream: The Science of Dreams
13:05 The 4 Stages of Sleep Explained
23:05 Can Dreams Reveal Health Problems?
29:32 Are Dreams Random or Is Your Brain Trying to Tell You Something?
33:07 The Most Common Dreams and What They Really Mean
41:26 What Recurring Nightmares May Be Telling You
44:47 How to Train Yourself to Remember Your Dreams
53:57 Lucid Dreaming: How to Control Your Dreams While Sleeping
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The 5 Second Rule: https://amzn.to/4l54fahyt:video:uGDAGymKoiguGDAGymKoigUCk2U-Oqn7RXf-ydPqfSxG5gOne simple fall is so dangerous for women | Mel Robbins #ShortsMel Robbinshttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCk2U-Oqn7RXf-ydPqfSxG5g2026-06-28T19:30:39+00:002026-06-30T10:17:24+00:00One simple fall is so dangerous for women | Mel Robbins #ShortsOrder your copy of The Let Them Theory 👉 https://melrob.co/let-them-theory 👈 The #1 Best Selling Book of 2025 🔥 Discover how much power you truly have. It all begins with two simple words. Let Them.
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One simple fall can change your life.
Dr. Vonda Wright is a double board‑certified orthopedic surgeon and one of the world’s leading experts on bone health, mobility, and aging.
Dr. Wright shared a statistic that stopped me cold:
1 in 2 women will suffer an osteoporotic fracture.
And many of those happen from something as small as tripping on a curb or a rug.
On this episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast, Dr. Wright breaks down why bone loss starts decades earlier than you think, what actually puts you at risk, and what you can do now to protect your strength, your independence, and your future.
Watch the full episode now: https://youtu.be/qQO-lL6gJSQ
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The 5 Second Rule: https://amzn.to/4l54fahyt:video:Z1XImYgB_6AZ1XImYgB_6AUCk2U-Oqn7RXf-ydPqfSxG5gThis is why you overcomplicate things | Mel Robbins #ShortsMel Robbinshttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCk2U-Oqn7RXf-ydPqfSxG5g2026-06-27T19:30:17+00:002026-07-01T11:42:55+00:00This is why you overcomplicate things | Mel Robbins #ShortsOrder your copy of The Let Them Theory 👉 https://melrob.co/let-them-theory 👈 The #1 Best Selling Book of 2025 🔥 Discover how much power you truly have. It all begins with two simple words. Let Them.
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Don’t fall into this trap…
You feel stuck because instead of starting, you keep trying to figure out the “right” way to start.
You think about it. Talk about it. Research it. And nothing happens.
You don’t have a plan. You have an idea. And ideas don’t change anything on their own.
In this episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast, I’ll show you why overthinking is keeping you stuck—and how to simplify your next step so you finally start moving.
Watch the full episode: https://youtu.be/NiI8i20mKl8
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If you want to feel better and age better, start here.
Dr. Rhonda Patrick is a biomedical scientist who studies nutrition, aging, and disease prevention and how a few core habits shape your long‑term health.
Most people think getting healthier means doing more.
More workouts. More restrictions. More rules.
But the science points to something simpler.
Focus on what actually moves the needle - movement, nourishment, and sleep.
These 3 things work together to improve your energy, your mood, your metabolism, and how your body handles stress.
On this episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast, Dr. Rhonda Patrick breaks down the small, science‑backed habits that help you feel stronger now and set you up for a longer, healthier life.
Watch the full episode now: https://youtu.be/BPZBIzf39M0?si=8BiU1CC73FlJfrwx
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If you’re not sure what supplements you should be taking, start here.
Dr. Rhonda Patrick is a biomedical scientist who studies nutrition, aging, and disease prevention — and which supplements actually support your health based on research.
If you feel overwhelmed with what supplements to take, Dr. Patrick recommends a few core ones most people can benefit from.
On this episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast, Dr. Rhonda Patrick shares the simple, science-backed changes that can improve your energy, health, and longevity without overcomplicating it.
Watch the full episode now: https://youtu.be/BPZBIzf39M0?si=uNfjj9DzxFtJPV_S
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You will learn the surprising science of exercise and nutrition, the mistakes you’re making, and the simple changes that lead to better health and longevity.
In this powerful episode, Mel sits down with one of her dream guests, Dr. Rhonda Patrick PhD.
Dr. Patrick is a biomedical scientist who has spent her career studying nutrition, aging, and disease prevention.
Ever wonder why you can walk every day and still not feel stronger? Or why you’re exhausted, stressed, and carrying more weight around your middle? There’s a reason for that.
Today, Dr. Rhonda Patrick reveals why traditional fitness advice doesn’t work, the mistakes most people are making, and the simple changes that can help you build better health, more energy, and a longer life.
For way too long, you’ve been taught that getting healthy means more time at the gym, restrictive diets, and no “off” days.
Dr. Patrick says we have it all wrong.
Today, she breaks down the science of what really matters for your health and longevity - and the good news is, it’s way simpler than you think.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
-What the “talk test” is and how to use it to find the right level of exercise
-Where the 10,000-step goal came from - and what to focus on instead
-How 9–10 minutes of daily “exercise snacks” can improve your health
-What visceral fat is and how to improve fat loss
-Scientifically speaking, why sleep is critical for recovery, stress, and longevity
-The simple lifestyle habits that can add healthy years to your life
-Dr. Patrick’s daily smoothie recipe for getting more key nutrients
After today you will have the small, science-backed actions that improve your health, energy, mood, brain, resilience, and future.
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In this episode:
00:00 Meet the Guest
06:19 The Fastest Way to Improve Your Health
09:57 Exercise Intensity Matters More For Your Health Than Steps
19:50 Forget the Gym: This 3-Minute Exercise Routine is All You Need
25:54 The 1-Minute Exercise Protocol for Better Health
31:56 Just 1 Minute of Exercise is Enough
38:15 What Does Doing Hard Things Do To Your Brain?
46:01 This Type of Fat Doubles Mortality Risk
52:50 The Weight-Loss Mistake Most People Make
56:14 How to Lose Weight with 5 Questions
01:01:57 The Longevity Smoothie That Can Add 14 Years to Your Life
01:17:09 The 7 Foods That Matter Most
01:20:31 The Only 5 Supplements You Really Need
01:23:59 The #1 Health Habit to Start Today
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